When your ex turns wrong....
Sooo I haven't posted anything in a while and I apologize for that. I've been busy with rollergirl stuff and just in general taking a much needed break. However, I'm currently incredibly pissed off. My best friend rode his bike over tonight because it was a perfect evening - well at least in the beginning - and we were going to ride around to a few different locations.
I fed the parrot and the dog and put them in their respective places and headed out to my shed where I kept my motorcycle. My friend was waiting out front for me to pull my bike out so we could head out. Shortly before my husband left me, I finally put a padlock on the shed where I keep the motorcyles. I know the combination very well but after a dozen times of trying it there was no luck. My friend, Chris, fainlly walked back to find out what the hold up was and I had no idea. The combination just wasn't working,
I went inside to get the actual physical combination and we both tried it about a dozen more times. Finally, Chris said that the lock was probably messed with. We went inside and got tools to pry the door open, which had to be done eventually, so I could at least get my bike out. Lo and behold the other Harley was missing. Someone (my ex) broke in to my shed and stole the Harley, and conicidently screwed up the lock so I couldn't get in there.
What are you supposed to do with that? Is it breaking and entry along with grand theft larceny? I'm going to the local police office shop tomorrow to find out what I need to do. At a minimum, I feel like a restraining order is the right call because given my schedule he's had to have been stalking me for the right moment to break in and take my property.
He's changedd his phone number and I have no way of getting in touch with him but I've tried my best to work with hinm on moving forward and getting through this divorce. I told him we needed to talk and he shows up with no notice and frankly scares me a bit. What am I supposed to do??? I've done nothing but support him through our marriage and this is how he repays me..... Lame.
I'm scared and I don't feel comfortable being along in my house. The house that I worked so hard to buy and maintain and grow. He did nothing.... period. I am very surpised and shocked at how he's been handling his all. Unfortunately it just go to show you that perhaps you can't trust people after all.
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Hm, stalking wouldn't work for me were I in a similar quandry. I helped teach my wife how use her .357...so she outguns my .380ACP...but I'm currently more accurate with mine ;-)... I don't remember if I told you this already, but a few years back I came home late from work and I was coming up the back steps when my wife abruptly opened the door and pointed her pistol at me. I then noticed her revolver cylinder was not in and calmly told her that if she was going to shoot me she ought to first snap the cylinder in place. Turns out some rapist was being chased by the police (10 blocks away, incidentally), and she wasn't sure if I was being followed or not. She did appreciate that I was cool under fire, so to speak, though.
Well fortunately I doubt I have to go through too much extra hoops. When he officially moved out in January, I immediately changed the locks on the house and my close neighbors do watch out for me. Also, I think he really only wanted the motorcycle. When he left he said he didn't want it but he since changed his mind. I'm sure the only way he could afford one was to steal the one his wife bought him. He won't be hanging out in the harley circles though - they all know me and never really liked him to begin with.
Overall, he's not too bright but it did creep me out to think he was likely stalking the house waiting for me to go. I'm usually pretty attentive to those things, so just reminds me to be more diligent. Karma is a bitch as they say, so hopefully he'll get his one day, in this life or the next.
Thanks for your thoughts! hope all is well with you!